Be first gentle, then be a gentleman

 Be Gentle person is a gender neutral act and everyone man or woman both need to become a gentle person. It is easy to accidentally hurt someone. In order to be a gentle person, you must be careful and thoughtful. You must learn to understand your strengths and control your impulses. Think before you act, reign in your anger, and always consider the consequences.

 Some of these qualities help you to become a gentle Person.

Intelligence: a gentle person should be well-read in multiple fields of literature, able to competently discourse about the news of his time, and possess an intellectual curiosity that respects the beauty of interdisciplinary thought. As a corollary, he should also be versed in language(s)  to such fluency as will allow him to express his thoughts succinctly and  elegantly. 

Humor: Every gentle person should have in his repertoire the spear of wit, the club of pun, and the blade of irony--for what is the meaning of a life without laughter? 
 

Humility: despite striving for excellence in all he does, a gentle person will never show arrogance. He will never assume the cloak of superiority above another, instead accepting that he will always have much to learn. Vaunts are unacceptable and unnecessary, as prowess married to finesse has a voice of its own.

Compassion: a gentle person should be sympathetic and empathetic to the plights of others, and possess the refined sensitivity to detect discomfort even when not explicitly expressed.
 
Generosity: a gentle person should be giving of his time and efforts to others. He should be quick to offer aid of all forms without prompt, although in balance he should possess the faculties to carefully judge priorities so as not to commit beyond his means.

Punctuality: a gentle person is always early unless courted by such overwhelming forces as could not be foreseen and accounted for--for instance, serving as sole witness to an accident while en route to a previously planned rendezvous. 

Courage: throughout his life, a gentle person will cultivate aptitude both physical and mental such that he may possess the daring to face challenges and tackle obstacles with confidence.

Wisdom: while a gentle person should be passionate, he should possess a temperament cool enough to realize there are occasionally limits, as well as boundaries that should not be crossed. He should understand that anger solves nothing, that recklessness leads to demise, that excess leads to greedy sorrow, and that human bonds should be treasured above all else. 

Aura: the most subtle of qualities, and intangible*--a true gentle person has about him an inexplicable air of quiet strength, a chivalrous feel that commands and gives respect, and an undeniable sense that there is far more than meets the eye.

Love: I have saved the best attribute for last--a gentle person loves his family, his friends, and life. This love is the driving force of all his other qualities, and he will defend it to his dying day.

      -Be Gentleman.