How To Develop Be Patience As A Gentleman
October 11, 2018According to me if you will know the actual meaning of Patience then you can easily achieve it with perfection. The patience is all about accepting the change which is occurring around us. If you are attached with that one reason which makes you more stronger in running behind your dream then your level of patience will increase day by day.
Developing
patience is not a simple task, it is definitely a very tough task We cannot get patience directly by being
something or behaving in an orderly way . We have to control some
emotions and feelings to develop patience. Patience
is a actually not an easy thing and forget about normal human beings
like me, even the great of the greatest has problems in dealing with
patience.
Mind inherently is IMPATIENT. It is chaotic. It likes to Confuse itself - with an objective of deriving solutions. In doing so - it is always prone to drive our expressions to be abrupt and abrasive. Developing patience is nothing but being free from some kind of work that bothers you .Finally I would like to say that patience is achieved if you don’t work and sit silently and sleep and repeat. You need to be really motivated to learn patience. This can be learned right from home itself.
Mind inherently is IMPATIENT. It is chaotic. It likes to Confuse itself - with an objective of deriving solutions. In doing so - it is always prone to drive our expressions to be abrupt and abrasive. Developing patience is nothing but being free from some kind of work that bothers you .Finally I would like to say that patience is achieved if you don’t work and sit silently and sleep and repeat. You need to be really motivated to learn patience. This can be learned right from home itself.
>The best way to develop patience is not to act immediately to any given situation.
>Stop. Think, And then Take action.Force yourself to slow down.
>Do not over react.Take deep and slow breaths, and then count to 10. Learn to manage your emotions.
>Some situations may demand immediate decisions. There you need to focus and prioritize the most important thing. Let your senses be in your control.
>When you think you need to react over things , always think something best going to happen if you won’t react now. And believe me It works.
>Understand the people don’t judge them: This will help you to be patient instead loosing it over people around you when they makes you annoying. There is a reason on people’s behavior.
>Understand the situations don’t judge them: In the same way, bad/good situations have their own reasons to be like that.
>All in all once you realize, world could not be perfect as always you want instead needs to understand it. I believe this is best way to develop patience.
>Practice active listening and emphatic listening .
The one best method but difficult method to develop patience is to meditate , I know it's a vague thing to advice but to develop patience is to meditate , I personally have gain that through meditation and meditation can be anything , physical exercise , reading , writing , any hobby which helps your creativity . So just start learning Maditation .
Some of the Weird But nice methods to increase Patience is -
>If you are guy, one way is to master your patience is by growing beard, because it requires a lot of patience in it.
>Buy
a 2G data plan and watch movies on YouTube using it . You might think
I might be joking but if. You do this for at least one week you would
sense an improvement in yourself .
What is IMPATIENCE? Impatience is when we are unhappy with the present and we are longing for a better future. We are resisting the present moment.
What is IMPATIENCE? Impatience is when we are unhappy with the present and we are longing for a better future. We are resisting the present moment.
What do you gain from being impatient ?
>Muscle tension.
>Shallow breathing.
>Tightening/ Restlessness.
>Anxiety problems.
>Quick decisions.
So always remember be patience for not only yourself but also for those whom you love. Because your impatience hurt them the most.
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