How to Talk Like A Gentleman?

October 09, 2018

Well, I am not Gonna Tell you that say "sorry" without your fault , Say "please" without any reason , "Ask for permission" for everything You wanna do. Because it doesn't Give anyone a Feeling of a free life. It is like you are forced to showing people that how much a person get Obedient as I am not good in following rules and discipline.

I am gonna tell you

>How to Talk less but Talk Right?

>How can one become smart at talking?

>How to Talk like a Gentleman?

How to Talk less but Talk Right? As I Sometime think that how can some people talk just two or three times in a discussion or any conversation and their words value the whole discussion and this shows the power a gentleman have.

How can one become smart at talking? As some peoples are highly manipulative i.e. they can manipulate people in that way that each words are correct and a people never know what his own words and when they are manipulated. Well I am good in manipulating people according to my choice.

And at last How to talk Like a Gentleman?

>How to Talk Less and Talk Right ?

There are no medicine that makes you silent and magics in your words You need to practice these things and need to follow some basic activities and after few you gonna familiar with them. So, the first step is

>Learn to observe people, things, and actions it helps you to understand peoples thinking and what that action means.

>You can be calm and composed when you will listen more,observe more and give your opinion to others only if they ask you .

>Reading more lead to thinking more so you can feel yourself and talk less and Think more.

>Witness what you are going to speak before you actually speak and if it is very very important to speak than only open mouth else let the urge pass.

>If you feel you are talking unnecessarily just calm yourself before you say something or try to speak something.

>Try to absorb every single thing happening around, don't let your mind run in all the directions. If someone is talking then try to understand the context of their sentences, don't rush to put your thoughts, wait for precise moment and then give your inputs. Comma and dots are the most important aspect of any sentence without it you can't make sense of any sentence, make sure you have that comma and dot in all your future communications.

Secondly, How can one become smart at talking?

The main and first rule of talking smartly is you have a good intelligence. Intelligence is not completing 12th with 95% or else Intelligence means having a logical mind and a great sense of humor because a good sense of humor place an important role on your words. So try just simple steps to increase your intelligence-

> Physical exercise. (Normal walking or jogging will do.)

> Practicing meditation.

> Reading books.

> Staying aware in the moment, and not remain lost in the dreaming world of the mind.

> Practicing mindfulness.

The above practice will help you to upgrade your thinking process. Once right kind of thoughts starts to flow through your mind, your words will influence others.

And Last How To Talk Like a Gentleman-

Some of Your Habits, Activities and Intelligence make you smart and somethings that written down make you the gentleman.

>Listen everything carefully and then speak and let other speak when they do and pay attention on their views and try to understand what they want to say.
>Do not overreact or try to be too nice. Because sometimes people things that no one can be that nice so they think you are fake.
>Try to be polite and honest. because it is the basic property of good talks.
>Do not freak out, ask for help and assistance.
>Promise if you can accomplish. And Prove your words.
>Have a positive attitude towards life and people.
>Respect your elders and women and others opinions.
>Argue but do not be a prick.
>Avoid using words that hurt anyone, criticize in a way that is not personal.
>Accomplish what you start and do not hesitate to apologize.
>Never start fights, always end them.
>Appreciation and compliments for those who deserve.
>Do not let your anger burst out, think of a solution or procrastinated action.
>Do not make unnecessary friends or trust too much.
>Take pride in being yourself and take care of your hygiene.
>Help people for cause not for appraisal.
>Never Increase your voice during a conversation.

Well you cannot have all the qualities listed above but a majority of them should do. and try to learn new qualities as learning is never ending process.

Learn Something From Game Of Thrones -

Managing difficult conversations.

Some people in Game of Thrones are excellent at handling difficult conversations and can turn potential enemies into allies. Others… not so good.
For example, Ned Stark famously makes allies with his bastard “son”, Jon Snow. While Ned died in the first season, Jon avenges his father’s death, reclaims the North and remains forever loyal to him.
Conversely, Roose Bolton also has a bastard son, Ramsay Bolton. While their relationship is strong at first, Roose doesn’t handle a difficult conversation well with Ramsay when he announces he’s having another, non-bastard child. In response, Ramsay kills Roose, only to later fall to Jon.

Same with Gentleman. There are key conversations you’ll have with people throughout your career that could go either way – either they’ll become a friend for life, or you’ll lose them forever. You want to keep allies, not create enemies, so managing those conversations is crucial.

Knowing how to say no.

Here’s an underrated quality that has lead to the death of many in Game of Thrones. There’s no better example than Ned Stark.
In the first season of the show, Ned is asked leave his job as King in the North to serve as Hand of the King to his friend, Robert Baratheon. This isn’t a good role for him: Ned is not comfortable down south in King’s Landing, where the king lives. And yet, despite protests from his wife, he agrees to do it out of loyalty to Robert.
The decision proves costly. Ultimately, both Ned and Robert are killed in the first season by the Lannisters and the Starks’ would later lose the North because of it. Ned should have said no, but he let his friendship cloud his better judgment.

This is the same for Gentleman. Too often, people say yes to things that aren’t the right fit. Almost always, this proves costly. Just like in the Game of Thrones, to win in life, you need to be very careful about what you say yes to.

BE GENTLE---

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