Be Gentle

How To Be Punctual ? Why Is It Important?

October 16, 2018

Punctuality depends on the situations and the Mindset of a culture like Some countries have no issue with time where some countries are very serious about time. And also it mainly depends on the situation like If it's a lethal situation (e.g: someone is bitten
by a snake, or a bridge is tearing apart), then it is important. If it's something like, your favorite TV show is about to begin, then, no. Even though it's not threatening, being punctual is important. If life is at the stack, then yes, too. But it depends on your situation that which work you need to be punctual and what not.

One side 

Punctuality is as necessary as brushing teeth.
Not brushing teeth leads to cavities, sickness, smell, and dislikes. Not being punctual leads to shortages, mismanagement, attitudes, and dislikes.

And another side

Too much-brushing teeth may weaken the teeth. Over punctuality may weaken the joy of life.
Pragmatic punctuality is a must!

Why Punctuality is Important-

Being punctual strengthens and reveals your integrity - If you tell someone that you will meet them at a certain time, you have essentially made them a promise. And if you say you’ll be there at 8:00, and yet arrive at 8:15, you have essentially broken that promise. Being on time shows others that you are a man of your word.
Being punctual builds and reveals your discipline - The punctual man shows that he can organize his time, that he pays attention to details, and that he can put aside this to do that – he can set aside a pleasure to take care of business.
Being punctual assures you’re at your best - After riding someone’s bumper, speeding like a maniac, scanning for cops, and cursing at red lights, it’s hard to then turn your focus to making a presentation at a meeting or charming a date – you’re shaky and depleted from the adrenaline and stress. But when you show up on time, better yet a little early, you have a few minutes to collect your thoughts, review your materials, and get your game face on.
Being punctual shows your humility - That bumper sticker maxim: “Always late, but worth the wait” shows that tardiness and an overestimation of one’s worth sometimes go hand in hand. People will be glad to see you when you arrive, but they would have been gladder still had you come on time. 
Being punctual shows your respect for others. Being late is a selfish act, for it puts your needs above another. You want an extra minute to do what you’d like, but in gaining that minute for yourself, you take a minute from another. Which shows you don't respect others time. And so Yours also.
 Being punctual builds your self-confidence. Showing up on time not only tells other people you are dependable, it teaches you that you can depend on yourself. The more you keep the promises you make, the more your self-confidence will grow. And the more you gain in self-mastery, the less you will be at the mercy of your compulsions and habits, and the more in control of your life you will feel.
 Being punctual is a sign of politeness - Politeness is the grace of the Spirit/Mind. Which shows you are a man of words and shows your politeness towards others. 

Advantages-

Got Respect: Punctuality speaks of a person’s respect for others. In giving respect to others we can earn in turn.




Free Mind At Work: An employee who isn’t stressed about reaching late or has come in early enough to give him minutes to settle in before the day’s work begins, has got better chances to get more accomplished than a late comer who feels more pressurized.
Team-Centered Goals: When you're on time for meetings, conference calls and shift changes, you show others that you have team-centered work goals. Punctuality demonstrates your respect for co-workers and clients and reinforces your time-management skills.
Increase Credibility: It might not seem like your job security is based on punctuality, but it certainly doesn't hurt, especially in a struggling economy.
Shows Professionalism: Punctuality is a sign of professionalism and helps you stand out as a reliable and trustworthy employee. If you don't get your part of a project completed on time, you keep others from being able to finish their tasks.
Full Fill Target: To be punctual means to be punctually fulfill the targets. And Increase Your efficiency.

How To Develop Punctuality - 


  1. Punctuality is a habit that can be developed with awareness and  consistent practice.
  2. To become punctual you first need to create a proper schedule for your day.
  3. Being punctual need to understand what is the reason of not be punctual and need to correct it.
  4. Use of the technological means at his or her disposal to remind them that they have to be somewhere at a certain time.
  5. Notifications, calendar entries, phone pings, emails, texts, can ensure you never miss anything.
  6. To create a habit of punctuality you need to work on the core issues for being late. The core of being on time is accountability, discipline and respect.
  7. You can be punctual only by understanding how your brain functions. Once you change the outlook of how you see time - you will definable start being on time.
  8. Punctuality is all a choice and require practice. To gain confidence and respect work on forgiving anger and guilt. 
BE GENTLE---

Be Gentleman

How To Develop Be Patience As A Gentleman

October 11, 2018

 According to me if you will know the actual meaning of Patience then you can easily achieve it with perfection. The patience is all about accepting the change which is occurring around us. If you are attached with that one reason which makes you more stronger in running behind your dream then your level of patience will increase day by day.


    Patience is one of the most important Quality and Hobby of a Gentleman. Not just a Gentleman every person who want to be successful in his life. He/She needs to learn to be patience in every situation because in this fast running time we have no wait to stop wait and then react we just want quick decision and quick action. That create a lot of unwanted action which we take impatiently and now we feel a lot of guilt. So to protect yourself from these guilt I prefer you need to learn be patience. This is one quality that all of us should have in life, as it will take us a long way to go. This quality can make us feel happy. As it takes a long time and a very painful process. But it is damn sure, you will have lots of benefit.
             
   Developing patience is not a simple task, it is definitely a very tough task We cannot get patience directly by being something or behaving in an orderly way . We have to control some emotions and feelings to develop patience. Patience is a actually not an easy thing and forget about normal human beings like me, even the great of the greatest has problems in dealing with patience.
                     Mind inherently is IMPATIENT. It is chaotic. It likes to Confuse itself - with an objective of deriving solutions. In doing so - it is always prone to drive our expressions to be abrupt and abrasive. Developing patience is nothing but being free from some kind of work that bothers you .Finally I would like to say that patience is achieved if you don’t work and sit silently and sleep and repeat. You need to be really motivated to learn patience. This can be learned right from home itself.
 

>The best way to develop patience is not to act immediately to any given situation. 

>Stop. Think, And then Take action.Force yourself to slow down.

>Do not over react.Take deep and slow breaths, and then count to 10. Learn to manage your emotions.

>Some situations may demand immediate decisions. There you need to focus and prioritize the most important thing. Let your senses be in your control.

>When you think you need to react over things , always think something best going to happen if you won’t react now. And believe me It works.

 >Understand the people don’t judge them: This will help you to be patient instead loosing it over people around you when they makes you annoying. There is a reason on people’s behavior.

>Understand the situations don’t judge them: In the same way, bad/good situations have their own reasons to be like that.

>All in all once you realize, world could not be perfect as always you want instead needs to understand it. I believe this is best way to develop patience.

>Practice active listening and emphatic listening .


 The one best method but difficult method to develop patience is to meditate , I know it's a vague thing to advice but to develop patience is to meditate , I personally have gain that through meditation and meditation can be anything , physical exercise , reading , writing , any hobby which helps your creativity . So just start learning Maditation .

 Some of the Weird But nice methods to increase Patience is -

>If you are guy, one way is to master your patience is by growing beard, because it requires a lot of patience in it.
>Buy a 2G data plan and watch movies on YouTube using it . You might think I might be joking but if. You do this for at least one week you would sense an improvement in yourself .


    What is IMPATIENCE? Impatience is when we are unhappy with the present and we are longing for a better future. We are resisting the present moment.
     What do you gain from being impatient ?
>Muscle tension.
>Shallow breathing.
>Tightening/ Restlessness.
>Anxiety problems.
>Quick decisions.


So always remember be patience for not only yourself but also for those whom you love. Because your impatience hurt them the most.

BE GENTLE---

Be Gentleman

How to Talk Like A Gentleman?

October 09, 2018

Well, I am not Gonna Tell you that say "sorry" without your fault , Say "please" without any reason , "Ask for permission" for everything You wanna do. Because it doesn't Give anyone a Feeling of a free life. It is like you are forced to showing people that how much a person get Obedient as I am not good in following rules and discipline.

I am gonna tell you

>How to Talk less but Talk Right?
>How can one become smart at talking?
>How to Talk like a Gentleman? 
How to Talk less but Talk Right? As I Sometime think that how can some people talk just two or three times in a discussion or any conversation and their words value the whole discussion and this shows the power a gentleman have.

How can one become smart at talking? As some peoples are highly manipulative i.e. they can manipulate people in that way that each words are correct and a people never know what his own words and when they are manipulated. Well I am good in manipulating people according to my choice.

And at last How to talk Like a Gentleman?

>How to Talk Less and Talk Right ?

There are no medicine that makes you silent and magics in your words You need to practice these things and need to follow some basic activities and after few you gonna familiar with them. So, the first step is 

>Learn to observe people, things, and actions it helps you to understand peoples thinking and what that action means.
>You can be calm and composed when you will listen more,observe more and give your opinion to others only if they ask you .
>Reading more lead to thinking more so you can feel yourself and talk less and Think more.
>Witness what you are going to speak before you actually speak and if it is very very important to speak than only open mouth else let the urge pass. 
>If you feel you are talking unnecessarily just calm yourself before you say something or try to speak something. 
>Try to absorb every single thing happening around, don't let your mind run in all the directions. If someone is talking then try to understand the context of their sentences, don't rush to put your thoughts, wait for precise moment and then give your inputs. Comma and dots are the most important aspect of any sentence without it you can't make sense of any sentence, make sure you have that comma and dot in all your future communications.
  

Secondly,  How can one become smart at talking? 

The main and first rule of talking smartly is you have a good intelligence. Intelligence is not completing 12th with 95% or else Intelligence means having a logical mind and a great sense of humor because a good sense of humor place an important role on your words. So try just simple steps to increase your intelligence-

> Physical exercise. (Normal walking or jogging will do.)
> Practicing meditation.
> Reading books.
> Staying aware in the moment, and not remain lost in the dreaming world of the mind.
> Practicing mindfulness.

The above practice will help you to upgrade your thinking process. Once right kind of thoughts starts to flow through your mind, your words will influence others.

And Last How To Talk Like a Gentleman-

Some of Your  Habits, Activities and Intelligence make you smart and somethings that written down make you the gentleman.



>Listen everything carefully and then speak and let other speak when they do and pay attention on their views and try to understand what they want to say.
>Do not overreact or try to be too nice. Because sometimes people things that no one can be that nice so they think you are fake.
>Try to be polite and honest. because it is the basic property of good talks.
>Do not freak out, ask for help and assistance.
>Promise if you can accomplish. And Prove your words.
>Have a positive attitude towards life and people.
>Respect your elders and women and others opinions.
>Argue but do not be a prick.
>Avoid using words that hurt anyone, criticize in a way that is not personal.
>Accomplish what you start and do not hesitate to apologize.
>Never start fights, always end them.
>Appreciation and compliments for those who deserve.
>Do not let your anger burst out, think of a solution or procrastinated action.
>Do not make unnecessary friends or trust too much.
>Take pride in being yourself and take care of your hygiene.
>Help people for cause not for appraisal.
>Never Increase your voice during a conversation.

Well you cannot have all the qualities listed above but a majority of them should do. and try to learn new qualities as learning is never ending process.

Learn Something From Game Of Thrones -

Managing difficult conversations.

Some people in Game of Thrones are excellent at handling difficult conversations and can turn potential enemies into allies. Others… not so good.
For example, Ned Stark famously makes allies with his bastard “son”, Jon Snow. While Ned died in the first season, Jon avenges his father’s death, reclaims the North and remains forever loyal to him.
Conversely, Roose Bolton also has a bastard son, Ramsay Bolton. While their relationship is strong at first, Roose doesn’t handle a difficult conversation well with Ramsay when he announces he’s having another, non-bastard child. In response, Ramsay kills Roose, only to later fall to Jon.

Same with Gentleman. There are key conversations you’ll have with people throughout your career that could go either way – either they’ll become a friend for life, or you’ll lose them forever. You want to keep allies, not create enemies, so managing those conversations is crucial.

Knowing how to say no.

Here’s an underrated quality that has lead to the death of many in Game of Thrones. There’s no better example than Ned Stark.
In the first season of the show, Ned is asked leave his job as King in the North to serve as Hand of the King to his friend, Robert Baratheon. This isn’t a good role for him: Ned is not comfortable down south in King’s Landing, where the king lives. And yet, despite protests from his wife, he agrees to do it out of loyalty to Robert.
The decision proves costly. Ultimately, both Ned and Robert are killed in the first season by the Lannisters and the Starks’ would later lose the North because of it. Ned should have said no, but he let his friendship cloud his better judgment.

This is the same for Gentleman. Too often, people say yes to things that aren’t the right fit. Almost always, this proves costly. Just like in the Game of Thrones, to win in life, you need to be very careful about what you say yes to.

BE GENTLE---


Be Gentleman

Having a Healthy Schedule For a Gentleman

October 08, 2018


Hygiene is The First Issue And This is a basic requirement, so come on, guys, be clean! Taking a shower or a bath every day isn’t really optional. You should take one every day, even if it’s just a perfunctory five minutes. Keeping clean not only makes you smell infinitely nicer, it also makes going about your day-to-day life much more pleasant for those around you. And Be Hygienic also gives You a lot of Confidence and Keep some deodorant or body spray in your bag or on your person at all times so that you don’t start to smell throughout whatever the day may bring. Having good hygiene also helps maintain self-esteem and boosts your mood—some things you need to be a gentleman.


It is The Hygiene And One More Important thing is Having a Healthy daily schedule so that you can optimize your day and be more productive all over the day. So for this You must need first to decide few goals By few I mean less than 5 but those goals are specific , measurable , attainable , realistic and timely and in single word those are smart goals .
             That way you have an exact idea of what you need to get done and you can stay on top of it without going crazy. and By doing so you'll dodge the bullets of decision fatigue and over worrying. 
       All of these You need a healthy full day schedule there are so many advantages of a good schedule.

Reduces Stress

A Scheduled Day Provide a well defined day So because you have an organized day, this can make your life feel more achievable and easier. and Helps to Reduces stress.

Helps you to Stay on Track and Accomplish What you Need to

This can include your Schedule identifying free time, When you are Available or Busy so you can then, fit things in your Schedule for knowing when you are available or busy.

Eliminates Guess Work

You Know What You Need To Do & When This can make sure you are not sidetracked or forgetful of things.

Ensure You Have Time for all Activities, Including Socialization

A Good Schedule will have things you like to do, not just the things you absolutely have to do such as your Job and School. Make sure you have free time to do the things you love or enjoy. If you end up not doing this, your life can become easily stressed and so can you.

You need to include some important things in your schedule like--

Try to Fix All important Activities

All Fixed your Regular Activities (Classes, Appointments, Doing School Projects/Assignments or even Your Job) to your daily basic requirements.

Put Separate Time For Family And Friends

In your schedule try to put a separate time for family like dinner is always with family and Social Time like Hanging out with your Friends, Sports, Group Activities. There is a separate time for this.

Always Have a Backup Plan For a Day

Flexibility for Last Minute or Unexpected Things Space for things, this could include having 15 Minutes or even 30 Minutes, a chunk out of your schedule for free time, or even meeting with someone. If you have a job being Flexible is a must. If there is an Emergency and you need to meet with a Client right away.

Mark Successes

Marking Off Successes with a Colored Pen give a pleasant feeling and a level of confidence. I know personally myself, I have a Bullet Journal, and others I know or have spoken to do too. You could even just have a Plain Journal too write out your Schedule with that is Specific to Scheduling. For this You can also use your mobile phone having some application or mark it when it is completed.

Reward Yourself

Rewarding Yourself Once you accomplish Important Things in Your Schedule, you should always Reward Yourself. Such as a Coffee from Cafe coffee day, Journal/ Journal Supplies, a New Piece of Clothing, Makeup or, even anything you have been planning to buy that you still haven’t.And the Reward is According to your accomplishment.

For More Daily Productive Use Technologies As Technology is an Angel or an Evil Matter On Your Use So

Use Calendars

This could include Pocket Book Calendar, Bullet Journal, a Plain Journal where you make your own similar to a Bullet Journal. Wall Calendar, Day Planner and anything else you could think of. Or You Can Just take Your mobile Calendar and Make A schedule inside it.

Use The Principle Of Divide & Conquer

Do small chunks of work and to do’s, then reward yourself after complete those task and complete them in the Small part's. It helps You to get interest on the task and improve your confidence level.

Use Fractions Of Time

Be Flexible which I mentioned earlier. Have things with you such as a planner while in the waiting room for an appointment. Or even doing things while you are on the Bus. And if sometimes some thoughts accidentally strike on our mind note them in your journal.

Make The Most Of Your Time

Using time efficiently, putting away distractions such as your phone, tablet or computer. Plus, stay off of Social Media. Use Free time if you have to let’s say when things get to stressful take breaks. As I previously say that technology is evil and angel.

Be Aware of Your Alertness Cycle

Are you a morning person or night, when do you start getting tired, what is the busiest time of the year for school or work, when you are most likely to get work done efficiently.

Evaluate Your Process

Use a Planner see what you have accomplished, make to do lists for the week then, see what you have accomplished, even do a Gratitude Log for each day and write down what you are Grateful for. And One of the most things always grateful of god because they give you all of this.

You need to know that for Yourself having a Schedule is Important. And I think everybody should at least have a day planner where you keep track of things and always have a Schedule. 

BE GENTLE---

Be Gentleman

How To Dress Like a Gentleman

October 06, 2018



Well It's True That the looks Matter. And to increase your self confidence your dress up play an important role. So the point come here is How to dress Like a Gentleman? The Dressing sense is not something that you can get, It will develop by the time on its own as you grow old with time you will start selecting the better color match and you should see the world more and more and get to know what to choose, how to choose and why to choose to wear at which place. 

                 Fashion trends are changing from time to time. You just need to surf the Internet once and you will get some idea about what is it and what is on trend.
            Normally a Gentleman dress up mostly formal but it doesn't mean that a gentleman takes a trademark of formal clothes. A Gentleman just needed a good dressing sense and then everything is look formal on him. So to dress like a gentleman you need to know some basic things which every man need to know -

Being Well Dressed Doesn’t Necessarily Have to be Expensive

To be a Gentleman it doesn't necessary that you have a cloths of a high brand or having all cloths are expensive. One quote about gentleman is this also that "A Gentleman don't dressed a branded cloths. But what he dressed is become a brand". Yes, there are a few wardrobe essentials that you might need to invest in for the long haul. But apart from those, you can buy anything from anywhere as long as it looks good on you. The price tag does not matter. And for the good quality you just follow simple things like go to a mall and check the quality and trend of the cloths and then buy it from anywhere.  

Discard All Unwanted Clothes From Your Wardrobe

 Before you revamp your wardrobe, you need to throw out anything and everything that you haven’t used in the past 1 year. Chances are, you might not wear them again, ever, unless they are the expensive ones for important occasions or else they caught some of the few memories you want to preserve.   

 Know Your Size And Shop According To It

From your undergarments to your shoes, you need to figure out what is your size. If you wear clothes larger than your size it will make you look frumpy and wearing smaller clothes will make you look tacky. To know your body shape just click here. 

 Choose Your Colors According to Your Skin Tone

There are certain colors that go with every skin tone. Try various colors on in different brands and stores. You don’t have to buy them. Get an opinion. Stay away from colors that are unflattering to your body and skin type. It is not important that you need to try all color on yourself sometimes observation plays an important role on the dress up sense.To know better which color suit on your skin tone click here.    

It is Important to Know Your Body Shape 

 Are you an apple, pear or rectangle? Well, It is not only the fruits it also show your body shape and it is important to know what is your body shape Because it helps to know which type of clothes you really need . There are multiple shapes and sizes to describe mans  body. Check online or ask a stylist at a retail outlet. It isn’t difficult. Also remember that sometimes you might not fall under any category and it is perfectly fine. To know your body shape click here.  

Always Wear What You are Comfortable With

 Never wear anything that makes you uncomfortable for more than 15 mins. Looking fashionable doesn’t have to be painful. Stick to your comfort zone and style. As it doesn't mean you go on a party with your shorts and undergarment.It's just means you need to dress cloths which fit on you and give you a feeling of comfort.  

Follow Fashion Rules or Make Your Own

 It is not compulsory that always you need to follow fashion if you think this fashion is not suitable for you than it's your responsibility to make fashion. Well, There are literally millions of sites that explain fashion rules. You have to remember them consciously for a few shopping sprees. Eventually, you will get a hang of it. Or you can see the online shopping sites and check what is trending on these sites.Like Limeroad , Myntra , Jabong , Amazon , Flipkart etc.  

Try Different Styles and keep Experiments on Your Body

 You will not know what you look good in if you don’t try those. Try out anything and everything until you figure things out. The more you experiment in the trial room, the sharper you fashion sense becomes. And for the good feedback never go single on shopping because mostly we never believe in a sales man as it's his/her duty to sell product. So for a good feedback take your honest friend with yourself.   

 Right Clothes For The Right Time

 This is something most people ignore. Wearing a sweater in summer just because it looks good will not cut it And also not make you comfortable. Follow a fashion blog, magazine icon to keep yourself updated. It is also important that you dress according to the occasion. You should not be over dressed or under dressed. Most people do this type of mistakes and in occasion place they regret on their dress up.   

 Be Well Groomed And Well Shaved

 One of the most important rule. Even if you spend a bomb on your clothes, if your hair are dirty or your shoes are cracked, it will be worthless. Keep yourself well groomed and clean at all times. Clean shave is not a part In today's trend beard are more popular just need to be well shaved and in good style.

And apart from all this first you need to take interest in doing fashion or start reading blogs on fashion, need to follow some peoples who you think that they dress nicely.

BE GENTLE---

Be Gentle

Be Caring For Her

October 04, 2018

Men aren’t always the best at expressing their emotions (Of course, not all men are the same) especially for the girl that he really care. Men are much better at letting his girl know that he care about her. for this he done some subtle actions like-

Protecting Him From Public Places-

Holding her hands while crossing the road , as well as make her walk on the right side or left side depending upon the direction vehicle approaches . This way he can make sure that her girl can't be hit by any vehicle . ( It may be silly but consciousness ). Or it may be something as simple as giving her his jacket on a cold night or choosing to watch the movie she want to watch or just ensuring she reach home safe after an evening out. Whatever it is, the man enjoys making her happy and worries about her safety.

Not Only Her also Care Her Family

The Gentleman not only care for his girl he also care for her family and family members too. A guy truly cares when he will take extra more miles to know how his girl family is doing and how well they are doing with her family too . The girl whole happiness could be the man own happiness in such case .

Guide Her as a Master and Support as a Backbone

The Gentleman never teach his girl to be dependent on him but always there to let she take decisions and support it till she reach the success whether it is small or big . Because the gentleman wants her to have best things possible .The gentleman always supports his girl because he believes in her. Either it's a decision to quit jobs or pursuing her hobby.

Never too Busy to Spend Time With Her

A gentleman is never too busy to spend time with his girl. He cares for her and needs to spend time with her.

Apologies For His Work

When A Gentleman is wrong, he sincerely apologizes. Some guys don’t do apologies because they don’t care. They’d rather pretend to be right than admit they may have been wrong. They care about Her hence when they made a mistake, they are willing to own up to it.

By Looking At Her Soul

When The Gentleman looks at His girl, he really looks at her.There’s something in everyone eyes that lets us know the person we’re looking at is seeing us not just looking at our outer self, but looking into our souls.

Can't Stay Mad On his Girl

A Gentleman really cares about his girl will hate fighting with her, so when the argument isn’t too intense, he’ll want to finish it quickly so he can get back to being a good partner. If something's kind of annoys him but isn’t a huge deal, the Gentleman might not even bring it up, just because he hates when the relationship is strained.

Does Things For Her Even He Hates

A guy who makes sacrifices for her girl is a guy who cares. He don’t have to be dramatic, storybook-type sacrifices, like giving up his job or leaving his home or anything that intense. They’re usually not even obvious.When he starts going out of his way to do things that he doesn't really enjoy, it’s pretty clear that he cares about her more than she thought the he did.

By Respecting Her Space

Though it may make her freak out, a guy who gives her enough space may just be subconsciously letting her know how important she is to him.The Gentleman cares about her needs, so while taking time apart is probably inconsistent with his personal wishes, the Gentleman doesn’t want to risk overwhelming her and messing things up.

   

BE GENTLE---

                                                                                                                                                                                                

Be Gentleman

Be Loyal For One

October 03, 2018

 

BEING GENTLEMAN doesn't mean you need to be loyal for everyone you meet. It's just means that whom you love and when you get that partner in your life whom you want to be Loyal Be loyal for that one. It came in any part of your life it's in your school life , in your college and after it.

Well, In this world full of fake peoples You just need a one person Whom with You always be loyal that person comes in your life at any moment and anywhere that means its not always true that with whom you are now you are loyal with that one . Well people think that you choose which you need to be loyal with that one but most time it is not possible for people which show that he/she is not that person whom you want. And i believe that Be gentle and flirt with everyone you like but when you got a person whom you love BE LOYAL that one and always be loyal with him/her.



Now Be Loyal For One

Loyalty of an individual is often misjudged for being faithful or associated with it. But both are different and faithfulness is a part of a loyal relationship. Cheating doesn't only happen with someone else but also happens when a person in a relation is reluctant to make it a happy union and work for it.

        Loyalty is rather the urge to not cheat or simply at times just to have a happy and healthy relationship. It is to stand by each other in ups and downs of life.

Let Others Know You Are Not Available

The fact that you are in a serious relationship does not mean members of the opposite sex cannot still be attracted to you, or that you will not still feel attracted to the members of the opposite sex you will meet in your office, at parties, or at the shopping mall. This is because your feelings do not shut off when you are romantically involved with someone.
                    Therefore, you have to remind yourself constantly that you are in a relationship and that you want that relationship to work. In addition, you have to ward off the advances of members of the opposite sex who are attracted to you by telling them you are happy with your partner and that you are not interested in being unfaithful to your partner.

Resolve All Issues That Can Make Your Relationship Unhappy

If you are unhappy in your relationship, it will weaken the love you have for your partner and make your desire to seek that happiness with someone else. Thus, discuss any issues that are disturbing your peace and making it difficult for you to relate in an affectionate manner to your partner, and solve the problems so that you will be affectionate towards your partner.

Stay Away from People Who are Attracted to You

If you know someone who likes you and would wish to have a relationship with you, tell that person in no uncertain terms that you are attached to someone. Furthermore, explain that you are very happy in your relationship and have no intention to be unfaithful to your partner.

 

Go Out with Your Partner

If you know you will go to a place where you will find it hard to resist the advances of the person who is interested in you, go with your partner. Explain the whole situation to your partner and plead with him not to create a scene. Show acts of affection to each other whilst at the event to show the other person that you are madly in love with your partner and will not leave him for anybody else.

Be Smart When You are in Tempting Situations

If you find yourself alone with someone who is interested in you, come up with a convenient excuse to leave the room. Alternatively, send a text message to a friend who is close by to come around so that the person interested in you will not attempt to do anything silly.

 Do Exciting Things Together Regularly

Have a list of activities you will do together every month or every year. Make time and do these things so that you can renew your love for each other and maintain your commitment to each other. Moreover, try new and exciting hobbies, visit countries you have never been to before together, visit exciting places.

 

Tell Him About Your Past

 Tell your partner that with whom you are previously live and confirm him that its all the past and now you don't want that silly things.Believe that it is the best thing to do in a successful relationship.
          This is what You need to do with yourself when you are in a relationship.but if you want a loyal relationship you need to do something like

First Respect Her A Woman always remember those who Respect Her

You cannot make a case for or against a woman’s display of loyalty towards you unless you’ve asked for her loyalty. No self-respecting woman of honor or substance should ever pledge her loyalty and allegiance to a man exclusively who hasn’t asked her to.

Play Fair

If you ignore the first suggestion, at least understand that the desire for a woman to be loyal to you is an expectation. And if you have expectations of a woman, she’s going to have expectations of you and you have to be willing to honor her expectations in return.


Look For Other Ways Your Potential Partner Exhibits Loyalty in Her Life

Is she faithful to God, family, friends, work? Which means you actually have to get to know her outside of a bed and outside of just the two of you going out together in your world. You have to enter into her world and see how she functions in other relationships and settings. If you want her loyalty someday at least commit to making your presence in her life known sometimes.

No Testing

If you’re withholding commitment and keeping a woman under an evaluation period until she proves her worth to you, that’s called a test. And if you aren’t clear with her about what you’re testing her on, that’s actually more like a pop quiz. Nobody liked pop quizzes in high school, nobody needs them in dating.

Dating For Love or Loyalty is not a Street Game

No “one wrong move and she gets wracked.” This isn’t Scarface. You can’t expect unconditional love from a woman without practicing it yourself. Your mistakes don’t make you a failure. Hers don’t either.


No Woman is Flawless

Not even Beyonce. I’m sure she gets on Jay’s nerves sometimes too. It’s sweet that men like to praise and compliment women, but it also delays reality. If you approach a woman expecting to meet her flaws, you’ll be less disappointed when they show up, and you’ll probably find you still like her anyway.

No Risk, No Reward

Love is risky business. Because women are human — just like other humans you know; your mother, your father, your brother, your cousins — they will disappoint you at one time or another. But that doesn’t mean they aren’t loyal. It means they have issues, just like you. As we get older, and experience more rejection and let downs in love, willingly setting ourselves up for taking that risk again for love takes great courage.

Trust Your Instincts

If you like a woman a lot, see potential in her, it’s clear she has a good heart, just ask her to give you a chance. It worked in high school, didn’t it? You ask, she says yes or no. Worst-case scenario, you break up one day. But at least you had a great time with a great girl, and most likely you’ve become a better man for the next woman who comes along.



At Last Always Be Loyal For that one But Remember Your Loyalty never Fool You.

BE LOYAL---



Raj Singh 2018. Powered by Blogger.

Contact Form

Name

Email *

Message *